Dowery

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In Islamic traditions, the bridegroom bears all financial burdens. In Yemen dowries demanded by most families can reach million of riyals. Since marriage in Yemen is mainly a family affair, the family of the bridegroom helps its son with the required money. High dowries lead to increasing the marriage age. Young people now study and embark on a career before getting married. So marriage age in Yemen now is about 27 years. A young man graduates from secondary school at 18 years of age, spends two years in the army, a minimum of four years at university and may be two years at work to save money.
Inter-tribal marriages are more costly than those within one tribe or one family. This is usually due to the fact that individual tribes are very proud of their lineage, so they demand a high dowry to give their daughters a high status. They also wish to appear quite proud in the eyes of the rest of society.
Marriage is often considered a show of riches when families have the chance to display their material wealth by holding lavish banquets and wedding parties.
In view of the rising cost of living, the state should try to raise people's awareness of the importance of a solid nucleus family for the overall stability of society.
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[باضريس الكازمي]

in the begining i would like to thank you me my brother abu hamza for choosind good and very important topics which make so proud of you i am following what have written and reaaly you are so good

regarding dowery which becomes hump infront of the young men who wana marry and build good life and it is sprad out in the whole region not only in yemen , and so many people miss the right road because of the disability of marriage.
i think parrents should return back to quran and what a,,llah said and the prophet peace be upon him regarding this problem... and they mush think how they will help their daughters to get marriage ..you know in some countries they familes of the girls the one who have to pay the dowery and it is upside down
such as india




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bu ahmed

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